i only add the following:
+ people i am friends with in real life.
+ people whose journals i enjoy reading.
+ people who i have known online for a long time.
if you would like to be added, please leave a message, but please consider the things listed above. it's nothing personal, but this journal has been running for almost 9 years and it is very personal. not something that i want to share with just anyone. for those of you that are lolitas, i post all lolita related things in the communities so you aren't missing out on anything here.
thank you xoxo